Dating a guy 8 years older than me
Let’s look at that list again, and you may see some challenges.
A man who has been married to one woman for over forty years can be challenging.
He takes you to a nice restaurant and much of the conversation centers around his deceased wife.
He just wants to tell you all the special things they did together.
However, Ok Cupid has many not-so-great users as well, and it’s not uncommon for women to have the misfortune of encountering them, and in the past, I have as well.
In total, I received 11 messages with 218 visitors. A few were a little more forward, and two were straight-up aggressive.
This type of man may have a hard time with the thought of a girlfriend or future wife.
You try not to get your feelings hurt; but alas, it is impossible to believe that he wants anything to do with you, when her presence is everywhere. Or, he might introduce you, but they may not want to meet you, or get to know anything about you. “Trying” to love you is not a phrase you want to hear.
He has probably been taken care of, coddled, and somewhat controlled.
He feels he had the greatest marriage of the century.
It is reminiscent of a kid who is trying to like broccoli.
If this advice sounds negative, it is only meant to provide women with a jolt of realism, and to provide widowers with an eye-opener.